A Plea and the Rest of the Story

Dealing with my own health issues is frustrating enough as I hate the lack of control when I wait for my tests or results, but that is nothing in comparison to the helplessness I experience when one of my loved ones is ill.

Last week we received great news concerning my youngest niece, C, who caught the Super Bug 3 1/2 years ago and was in and out of the hospital for months as she recovered. Since that recovery C has had multiple surgeries and has been sick with a bacterial or viral infection at least once a month all these years. A few weeks ago, C had a biopsy along with further allergy and immune system tests which finally revealed that she did not have an immune deficiency but that her health problems are due to being severely allergic to several things that she can't avoid in her daily life. The docs are forming a treatment plan which was great news for the family who has watched her suffer all these years.

Then I received a terrifying phone call from Erin on Friday. Yes, I know some felt I wasn't telling the whole story about the birthday weekend so here is what I can say. This call left me feeling completely helpless. Though my instinct screamed for me to act, all I could do was listen and try to be calm. The story is not mine to tell but I can share what Erin posted on Facebook ... "Please pray for our E. We've been in the hospital since Friday. She is having heart troubles, beating too fast. They have her stabilized now, but still not good enough to go home. Any prayers are very much appreciated!"

During my horrendous procedures, eventual hysterectomy, and subsequent bladder injury, Erin was a lifeline offering support and comfort during a bleak time in my life. Not only has Erin given me the remarkable gift of her friendship, but she has granted me the opportunity to witness the wonders of motherhood through her amazing love for her children. I hate, despise, and detest the idea of Erin and the family suffering, much less baby E.

In this moment of complete helplessness, all I can do is ask that people pray for this sweet girl and her loving family who are also my loved ones.